One of my favorite things to do is collect, make, read and watch anything burlesque. Dita Von Teese is of course one of my favorites but burlesque is a dying art ! Something I would love to perform. I think every woman has little pin-up stripper in them. Some of us just take off our clothes and lay there. There are certain places on a man's body other than his "thing". Your hot breath on his neck is a hot spot and a nibble on the earlobe works too. I am not the most daring person in the bedroom but when my bra and panties match, I feel like ninja and I can take anyone down. Some women don't feel it necessary for frou frou lingerie in the bedroom. I'll bet my life when you have something sassy underneath you'll feel the same way.
I came across this documentary on a burlesque school in Seattle, Wa. Yes, a school. They teach you the basics and students perform a recital at the end. You become aware of your body and what you are capable of doing with it. You don't have to be a stick to look good naked in front of your partner. I'm convinced once they see nipple, they are done for. The students created an alter ego - some of them are just as strange as can be and others are more of a self discovery. All ages by the way! They all had one thing in common. Their sexuality, feeling desired and free. We all don't have that super power. No matter what age, size, or sex you are SEX is important. I do feel terrible for the people who don't get to experience sex. There is someone out there for everyone, it's getting out there and trying it out - like new shoes. I don't want to sound shallow about it but - everyone is replaceable, when love is involved its getting over it, is the hard part. But back to the subject ... being sexual drives women and men to feel complete. We both have to do our part in the bedroom and make it at least a 9 on a scale of 1 to 10.
I suggest every woman watch this film. It's enlightening.
